Mu buzima, hari ibihe bitoroshye tugeramo bikadusiga twaravunitse umutima. Hari ababura ababo, abandi bagatereranwa n’abo bizeye, abandi bagahura n’ibibazo bikomeye bikamara igihe kirekire. Hari n’abasigaye n’inkovu z’ibyo banyuzemo, batazi uko bazakira.
Ikibabaje ni uko abantu babiri bashobora kunyura mu bintu bisa, ariko umwe akabigira inkurikizi zikomeye kurusha undi. Biterwa n’ahantu umuntu akura, inkunga abona, cyangwa uko ateye mu mutima. Hari abashobora kubyakira buhoro buhoro, ariko hari n’abandi bihindurira ubuzima burundu.
Bimwe mu bikomeretsa abantu cyane
– Kubura umuntu ukunda, yaba umuvandimwe cyangwa inshuti magara
– Kugambanirwa, guhemukirwa n’uwo wizeraga
– Kunyura mu kibazo kidashira cyangwa gihora kigaruka
– Kubabazwa nkana, si impanuka ahubwo ni nkana yo kubabaza
Hari abantu iyo bahuye n’ibibazo nk’ibi, ntibihanganira ibikomere. Akenshi ni:
– Abakuze mu miryango yugarijwe n’indwara zo mu mutwe
– Abahorana agahinda no gutwarwa n’amarangamutima
– Abatagira inkunga y’umuryango cyangwa inshuti igihe barimo ibibazo
Abakristo n’abandi bantu b’inshuti iyo umuntu ari mu bibazo, hari abavuga ngo: “Ibyabaye byibagirwe, reba imbere”, “Ntugashake kuvuga ku bibazo byawe”, “Kugaragaza agahinda ni ukutizera Imana”. Ariko ibyo si byo. No muri Bibiliya, hari abagaragaje agahinda kabo imbere y’Imana:
– Yona yaravuze ati: “Nyica kuko gupfa bindutira kubaho”
– Petero yararize cyane amaze kwibuka ko yahakanye Yesu
– Hana ntiyari abyaye, yagiye imbere y’Imana ararira, avuga agahinda ke
– Yesu ubwe yaravuze ati: “Agahinda mfite karenda kunyica”
Ibi byose bitwereka ko Imana idusaba kubwiza ukuri amarangamutima yacu, aho kubika uburakari n’agahinda mu mutima.
Kuvuga agahinda kawe ni intambwe yo gukira
Iyo umuntu avuze ibimuri ku mutima, atuje kandi yumva ateze amatwi, bituma agabanya uburibwe yikoreye. Uko ubivuga, ni ko bitakara buhoro buhoro. Iyo ubirwaye ukabiceceka, bishobora kumara imyaka mu mutima wawe bikaguhindura uko wari uri.
Kugira uwo ubwira agahinda kawe, yaba inshuti cyangwa itsinda ry’abantu mufite icyo muhuriyeho, bituma utangira urugendo rwo gukira. Iyo muganira, ushobora gusobanukirwa neza ibyakubayeho, uko wabyitwayemo, ndetse ukajya ushyira ibyiringiro byawe mu Mana.
Ibibazo ushobora kubaza umuntu uri kukubwira agahinda ke:
– Byagenze bite?
– Wabyitwayemo ute?
– Igihe cyari ikihe kikugoye cyane?
Ayo magambo ashobora gufungura umutima w’undi, agatangira urugendo rwo gukira.
Igihe cyose siko gutega amatwi bihagije
Hari ibikomere bisaba ubundi bufasha burenze kubiganiraho. Iyo:
– Ibibazo bimaze igihe kirekire
– Bibuza umuntu gukora, kwiyitaho, cyangwa kwita ku bo babana
– Ari byinshi kandi bisobekeranye
– Ari ibintu bikomeza kugaruka no kwiyongera
Icyo gihe, hakenewe ubufasha bw’umuganga w’inzobere mu mitekerereze. Gushaka uwo muntu si intege nke, ahubwo ni intambwe y’ubutwari.
Ibyiringiro birahari
Uko byaba bimeze kose, Imana irumva, iramenya kandi iratabara. Dawidi mu Zaburi 13 yagaragaje agahinda ke, ararira, ariko asoza yizeye ko Imana izamukiza.
Iyo uvuze amarira yawe mu buryo bw’ukuri, Imana ikwakira uko uri, igatangira kukuvura buhoro buhoro. Si ukubura ibikomere, ahubwo ni ukwemera ko ukeneye gukira.
