Abantu benshi bakunze gutekereza ko abasore aribo bakunda gushaka cyane,gukora imibonano, gusa ababyumva uko bari beshye kuko n’ abakobwa barabyifuza ariko bagapfita imbere bakabasha kubihisha n’ ubwo hari ibimenyetso bagaragaza bamwe mu bahungu batamenya.
Biba akarusho iyo ukoze imibonano n’ umukunzi wawe mwese muyishaka kuko bizatuma mu rushaho kuryoherwa cyane ndetse n’ umubano wanyu urusheho kwiyongera cyane.
Dore bimwe mu bintu bigaragaraza umukobwa ushaka imibonano.
1.Amagambo ye aba atangaje: Iyo umukobwa yagize irari ryinshi yumva ashaka ko mubonana aba avuga gake arandaga cyane akanacishamo agaseka, ndetse akanavuga amagambo aryohera amatwi y’ Abagabo harimo nko gutaka
2.Arikorakora ndetse akanakora ku musore: Umukobwa ushaka ko muryamana aba arimo kugukorakora ndetse na we akajya acishamo akikoraho gake gake , ku buryo uhita ubona icyo agamije.
3.Indoro idasanzwe: Iyo umukobwa ashaka ko muryamana ntabwo yabikubwira ahubwo,hari uburyo akoresha bwo kukureba icyoroshye ku buryo nawe iyo muhuje amaso uhita wibwira icyo agamije.
4.Uburyo ahumeka ndetse n’ uko umutima we urimo gutera: Ni byiza ko Mbere yo gukora imibonano mubanza gukorakorana mu rwego rwo kongera ubushake bw’ ibyo mugiye gukora,mu gihe w’ umwishe umukobwa atangiye guhumeka cyane ndetse n’ umutima we ugatera cyane aba ashaka ko muryamana n’ ubwo atabikubwira.
