Hari ibimenyetso byinshi byerekana ko umukunzi wawe akuze mu myumvire no mu mibanire. Dore bimwe muri byo:
Afata inshingano: Ntahunga inshingano cyangwa ngo ashyire amakosa kuri abandi. Amenya ko ibikorwa bye bifite ingaruka kandi yiteguye kubyitaho.
Yubaha ibitekerezo n’amarangamutima yawe: Nubwo mutaba muhuje ibitekerezo, aragerageza kumva aho uva kandi akubaha amarangamutima yawe.
Ntiyitwara nk’umwana mu makimbirane: Iyo habayeho kutumvikana, akoresha ubwenge aho kurakara, guhangana, cyangwa gucika intege. Azi kuganira neza no gukemura ibibazo mu bwubahane.
Afite intego mu buzima: Ntabaho gusa uyu munsi adatekereza ejo hazaza. Afite icyerekezo n’ibyo aharanira kugeraho.
Yemera amakosa ye: Iyo akoze ikosa, arabyemera kandi akagerageza gukosora aho yibeshye, aho gushaka uko ashinja abandi.
Arangwa n’ukwizera no kwihangana: Ntashaka ko ibintu byose biba vuba na bwangu. Azi gutegereza, gukora uko ashoboye, kandi akihangana mu rugendo rw’ubuzima.
Ntiyitwara nk’ufite ishyari ridafite ishingiro:Nubwo gukunda umuntu bisaba kumwitaho, ntakabya kuba umushishozi cyangwa gukeka ibitari byo buri kanya.
Azi gukemura ibibazo bye ubwe Ntatezuka ku nshingano ze yizeye ko undi muntu azamukemurira byose. Azi guhangana n’ibibazo kandi agafata ibyemezo bifatika.
Agira imyitwarire myiza mu mibanire ye n’abandi: Ntiyubahuka abandi, aba azi kwitwara neza mu muryango, mu nshuti, no mu bandi bantu muri rusange.
Akomeza gukura no kwiga ku buzima Ntiyumva ko azi byose. Azi kwiga ku buzima, akemera inama, kandi yiteguye guhinduka mu buryo bwiza.
Iyo umuntu afite ibi bimenyetso, bigaragaza ko afite ubushobozi bwo kugira umubano mwiza kandi urambye. Wowe ubona umukunzi wawe agaragaza ibihe?
