Mu buzima bwa buri munsi, abantu benshi bibeshya ku rukundo, bakitiranya gukundwa no kuba umuntu utunze amafaranga cyangwa ufite icyo atanga. Ese urukundo rw’ukuri rukeneye amafaranga? Cyangwa hari abataryubakira ku byifuzo by’imibereho myiza kurusha amarangamutima?
1. Umukunzi vs. Umuterankunga: Ibitandukanya aba bombi
Umukunzi ni umuntu ugukunda ku bw’imico yawe, uburyo utekereza, ndetse no ku bw’uko yumva umwuzuza mu buzima bwe. Urukundo rwe ntirugendera ku bushobozi bwawe bwo kumuha impano cyangwa kumwitaho mu buryo bw’amafaranga.
Umuterankunga, ku rundi ruhande, ni umuntu umuntu yishakira kugira ngo amufashe kubona ibyo akeneye mu buzima—ubukire, impano, n’ibindi. Akenshi, iyo ibyo yifuzaga abibonye cyangwa bibuze, urukundo rurashira.
2. Kuki hari abakunda abifashije kurusha abakene?
Umutekano w’ejo hazaza: Abantu benshi bashaka kwibera ahantu hatanga icyizere cy’ejo hazaza heza. Niyo mpamvu bamwe bahitamo abakunzi bafite ubushobozi bw’amafaranga.
Ubwoba bwo kubaho nabi: Hari abakobwa batinya kwishora mu rukundo n’umusore udafite icyo kurenzaho, kuko bibatera impungenge z’uko batazabaho neza.
Imiterere y’isi ya none: Uko iterambere rigenda ryiyongera, abantu barushaho gushyira imbere imibereho myiza kurusha amarangamutima.
3. Ni iki cyakwereka ko umukobwa mukundana ari umuterankunga aho kuba umukunzi?
Iyo ashyira imbere ibintu kurusha umubano wanyu.
Iyo ahora agusaba impano cyangwa ubufasha butajyanye n’imiterere y’urukundo.
Iyo adashobora kumarana igihe nawe igihe utari ufite amafaranga yo gukoresha.
Iyo imibanire yanyu igenda neza gusa igihe umufashije mu buryo bw’amafaranga.
4. Ese amafaranga niyo yubaka urukundo?
Amafaranga ni ingenzi mu buzima, ariko siyo yubaka urukundo rurambye. Urukundo nyarwo rushingira ku kwizerana, gufashanya, no gushyigikirana mu bihe byiza n’ibibi. Amafaranga ashobora kuba igikoresho cyo koroshya ubuzima, ariko ntashobora gusimbura urukundo rw’ukuri.
Umwanzuro:
Mu rukundo, ni ngombwa gutandukanya uwagukunze by’ukuri n’ugushaka kubera inyungu runaka. Niba ushaka urukundo nyarwo, menya gutandukanya umukunzi n’umuterankunga, kandi ntugakunde umuntu kubera ibyo afite, ahubwo kubera uwo ari we.
