Cyera umuhungu cyangwa umukobwa yashakaga kare maze akagura umuryango ndetse akarera abana be akibishoboye. ubu si ko bimeze kuko ubu ubutunzi bwabaye bucye, cyane cyane murubyiruko. ariko Dore impamvu ituma badashaka vuba;
Ubuhehesi: kuryamana n’umukobwa cyangwa n’umuhungu ni akantu toto muri iki gihe. si nka cyera byabaga ari amahano. ubu umuhungu ashobora kuryamana n’abakobwa barenze umwe mu cyumweru kimwe gusa. ibyo rero bitera abasore kudashaka vuba kubera ko baba bameze nk’abagabo bafite ingo mubijyanye no gutera akabariro.
Guhemukirwa kubakobwa: umukobwa yizera umuhungu maze bagakundana, bamara gukundana maze umukobwa akizera ko ariwe bazabana, igihe cyagera ndetse acyerewe yewe, umuhungu agashaka undi cyangwa akamukatira. ibyo bitera umukobwa kuzinukwa gushaka cyangwa akibyarira umwana akarera uwo ntashake.
Ubukene: ubukene butuma Urubyiruko rutinda Gushaka. akazi karabuze, akabonetse nako kishyura macyeya, abonetse akubakishwa umuburi kuko atavamo inkwano cyangwa ngo atunge umugore.