Ku bakobwa biragoye kugaragaza ko bashaka gukora imibonano mpuzabitsi*n* a, kabone n’ubwo yaba abishaka cyane, abenshi usanga batinya gutobora ngo babivuge, ariko hari ibimenyetso ashobora kugaragaza akabikwereka.
Ubushake bwabo bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsi* n* a burya bukunze kuba bwinshi cyane mu gihe cyabo cy’uburumbuke, Uyu munsi twakusanyije ibimenyetso bizakwereka ko yagize ubushake bwinshi bwo gukora imibonano mpuzabitsina ku buryo mutabikoze waba umuhemukiye;
Gutukura amaso:Umukobwa ufite ubushake burenze, bwo gutera akabariro akenshi amaso ye aratukura kandi akazamo amarira wamureba ukabona yirebesha icyoroshye, amaso yayateretse, ukabona ntashaka kureba neza.
Kumira amacandwe:Umukobwa wagize ubushake cyane uzasanga akenshi arimo kumira amacandwe buri kanya kandi akayamira ubona atamanuka kuko aba yacitse intege rimwe na rimwe no kuvuga bikaba ingorabahizi ijwi ntirisohoke neza wagira ngo yasinze.
Gucika intege:Iyo umukobwa yagize ubushake bwinshi aba yacitse intege ku buryo akenshi icyo umukoresha cyose agikora, ni ukuvuga ngo aho umujyanye ni ho ajya kabone n’ubwo yakabaye ari kubyanga ushobora kumva avuga ati oya ariko ukabona ari kubikora.
Gutosa imyambaro:Iyo yagize ubushake bwinshi usanga mu gitsina cye ububobere bwiyongereye ku rwego rwo hejuru ku buryo bigera no ku myenda y’imbere bikaba byagera aho bihinguka n’inyuma.
Kuzunguza amaguru:Uzasanga arimo gukomeza kuzunguza amaguru iyo yicaye ku ntebe, afata kamwe akakageraka ku kandi, mu kandi kanya akongera akakamanura akongera agahinduranya mbese asa nkaho yabuze amahwemo.
Kurya urutoki:Umukobwa ugeze kure akora ibishoboka byose ngo ubone icyo ashaka birimo no kurya utoki, iyo usanzwe uciye akenge uhita ukeka icyo akubwiye. Ibi bikunze gukora abakiri bato.
Kugufata akagukomeza:Ashobora kugufata ikiganza, akanga kukirekura, agakomeza kugikanda akurebana impuhwe mu maso, cyangwa se akaba yakuryamaho agukozaho ikibero cyangwa amabere dore ko aba nayo yakomeye.
Imibonano igenewe abashakanye gusa. Rubyiruko mwirinde imibonano mpuzabitsi *n *a kuko bishobora gutuma wandura indwara zandurira mu mibonano nka SIDA, ndetse no gutwara cyangwa gutera inda imburagihe bityo ubuzima bwanyu bukaba bwangiritse. IYI NKURU IGENEWE ABASHAKANYE GUSA