Burya abantu benshi binjira mu rukundo bagakunda bakanakundwa ariko hakabaho igihe usanga urukundo rwabo rudakura cyangwa se ngo rubaryohere.
Usanga akenshi rimwe na rimwe batuva ibyiza byo kuva mu rukundo , kutaryoherwa na rwo cyangwa se bikaba byanabaviramo no gutandukana bitewe n’ uko bataba bitaye ku byo umwe ashobora gukorera undi.
Dore ibintu 9 umusore n’ inkumi bakora bikanafadha kuryoshya urukundo rwabo.
1.Fata igihe umubwire mutemberane mujye ahantu kure n’ amaguru kandi hitaruye nko kumucanga , mu ishyamba n’ ahandi hatuje.
2.Mutumire aze musangire ifunguro haba mu rugo cyangwa semuri resitora.
3.Kora akantu kerekana ko mukundana igihe muri no mu bantu benshi.
4.Numuramutsa jya umuhobera cyane kandi umwegereye kabone n’ iyo mwaba muherukana vuba
5.Kora ubushakashatsi umenge umwenda akunda mu yo ufite janyuma ube ariwo wambara igihe cyose muri kumwe.
6.Jya umusaba uburengenzira bwo kumuhamagara kenshi cyane ku munsi.
7.Muririmbire kabone n’ iyo waba udafite ijwi riza , we biramunezeza
8.Jya ukunda kumubwira ko ari we wenyine wifuza kamdi utamubeshya.
9.Mu gihe uri kumwe n’ uwo ukunda , jya ugerageza kumubwira mu ijwi ryoroheje ndetse akenshi nujya kumubwira akantu gasekeje cyangwa se k’ ibanga ujye ukoresha kumwongorera , kuko ibi bituma yumva ibizongamubiri n’ itandukaniro riri hagati yawe n’ abandi.