Mu buzima hari ibintu biba bihenda, ariko urukundo rudasubizwa ni rwo rubabaza kurusha ibindi byose. Iyo umuntu akunze atagamburuzwa, ntacyo adakora ngo abe hafi y’uwo umutima we wamutoreye. Ni byo byabaye kuri Aline (izina ryahinduwe), umukobwa warwanye urugamba rutoroshye kugeza atsinze umutima w’umusore yifuzaga.
Uko byatangiye
Aline yari umunyeshuri w’imyaka 21 wigaga muri kaminuza imwe yo mu majyepfo y’u Rwanda. Mu mwaka wa kabiri, ni bwo yahuriye bwa mbere n’umusore witwaga Eric, wizeye ejo hazaza he, urangwa no kwitonda n’icyerekezo. “Namubonye bwa mbere ku cyumweru, twari turi mu mwiherero w’urubyiruko,” Aline avuga atuje, ariko ijwi rye ryerekana ko ayo ari amateka adashobora kwibagirana. “Sinari nzi impamvu umutima wanjye wahise umutoranya, ariko nahise menya ko hari ikidasanzwe hagati yacu.”
Ariko Eric we ntiyari amubonye uko. Mu bandi bakobwa bari aho, Aline yari usa n’utavugwa cyane, utari kwirangaza. Kuri we, ntibyabaye impamo y’uko urukundo rwihuta nk’uko bigenda mu nkuru z’urukundo zisanzwe. Byari intambara.
Urugendo rw’amarira n’ihangana
Hari abandi bakobwa benshi bari basanzwe bazengurutse Eric. Benshi bari bafite ubushobozi, uburanga, n’amagambo y’ubwenge. Aline yari afite umutima gusa, ariko ntiyari asanzwe. Yabaye inshuti ya Eric mu buryo bw’umwimerere. Yaramwumvise igihe abandi bamusuzuguraga. Yaramutegaga amatwi, akamuba hafi mu gihe cy’ibihe bikomeye, atigeze amusaba ikiguzi.
Yagize igihe atinya kugaragaza amarangamutima ye. “Ntabwo nashakaga kumubwira ngo ‘ndagukunda’ ngo mbyumve nk’igitutu, ahubwo nashakaga ko abibona mu bikorwa,” avuga. Uwo mwihariko we ni wo wamuhesheje intsinzi.
Igihe cyageze
Mu gihe benshi bakekaga ko Eric yatoranyije undi, ibintu byarahindutse. Umunsi umwe, yamuhamagaye aramubwira ati: “Nabashije kubona uwo bantu benshi batabonaga. Wowe ni wowe wanshyigikiye igihe nari ntazi aho nerekeza. Niba hari uwo umutima wanjye ushimira, ni wowe.”
Byabaye nk’inzozi. Ariko Aline yamenye ko ibyo yaharaniye byose bitapfaga ubusa. Urukundo ruragoye, ariko rushoboka ku bantu batajya bacika intege.
Isomo ku rubyiruko
Inkuru ya Aline ni isomo rikomeye ku rubyiruko rw’iki gihe rushobora gutwarwa n’amafoto meza cyangwa amagambo yuzuye uburyarya. Urukundo nyarwo rwigaragariza mu bikorwa. Iyo udacika intege, iyo ukomeza kuba uwo uri we, wihesha agaciro kandi ukubaha uwo ukunda, urugendo rutaroshye rushobora kurangira nko gutsinda urugamba.
