Urukundo, rufite imbaraga nyinshi zo gushyira abantu mu bihe byiza, ariko rimwe na rimwe, rushobora no guteza ibibazo n’ububabare. Mu mico imwe n’imwe, umukobwa ni we ushyirwa mu mwanya wo kumva ububabare bukabije mu rukundo kurusha umuhungu. Dore zimwe mu mpamvu zishobora gutuma umukobwa ababara cyane:
Imyitwarire y’Umukobwa mu Rukundo
Abakobwa benshi bakunda mu buryo bwimbitse, bityo bakarushaho kubyitaho mu mubano. Iyo ibintu bitagenda neza, batakaza icyizere, bigatuma bibabaza cyane.
Kwihangana Kwimbitse
Abakobwa bakunda gutega amatwi no kubanza kumva ikibazo cy’umukunzi wabo mbere yo kwibaza ku byabo. Ibi bituma bakomeza kwihangana kandi bikabaviramo kumva bababaye cyane igihe ibyo bifuza bidahindutse.
Ibyiyumvo Byimbitse
Imyitwarire n’ibyiyumvo by’umukobwa birashobora kuba bihamye kandi byimbitse. Kubura uwo bakunda cyangwa kugirirwa nabi mu rukundo biba byoroshye kubatera guhangayika no kubabara cyane.
Ibibazo by’Imico
Muri rusange, abakobwa bashobora kwishyiraho igitutu cyo gukunda no gutanga ibitekerezo byiza mu rukundo, bityo igihe umubano udashyize mu bikorwa ibyo bashaka, bababara cyane kubera kuba baragizweho n’ibyo bakunda.
Uburyo bwo Gutekereza
Abakobwa bakunda gufata ibintu mu buryo bworoshye kandi bagahura n’amarangamutima ajyanye n’ibyababaje. Ibi bituma batabasha guhagarika ibyababaje mu buryo bworoshye, bityo bagahora bababaye.
Ariko kandi, ntabwo umuhungu atababara mu rukundo. Hari igihe umuhungu na we ababara, ariko uburyo bugaragaza ibyo bababaye bukaba butandukanye. Mu nkuru, twavuga ko mu rukundo, buri wese ababara mu buryo bwihariye, bitewe n’uko yumva ibintu n’imyumvire ye.
Urukundo ni urugendo rusaba kwitanga, kumva neza no kuganira. Icy’ingenzi ni uko impande zombi zigomba kubahana no kwiyumvanamo kugira ngo haboneke urukundo rwiza, rufite ibihe byiza n’ibishimishije, ariko kandi n’ibihe by’ububabare n’amakosa bikavamo amasomo.
