Ukuri guteye ubwoba! Ibi bintu bibeshywa ku rukundo byangiza imibanire

Abantu benshi bibeshya ku rukundo mu buryo butandukanye. Dore impamvu nyinshi zituma bakora amakosa mu myumvire yabo:

Kwibeshya ko urukundo rw’ukuri rutagira ibibazo:Abantu batekereza ko urukundo nyarwo ari ubudaheranwa n’ibibazo, nyamara buri mubano ugira ibihe bigoye.

Gutekereza ko urukundo ruhagije ngo umubano ukomere:Urukundo ni ingenzi, ariko rudahagije. Hakenewe kubahana, gukemura ibibazo neza, no gukorera umubano buri munsi.

Kwibwira ko urukundo rugomba kuba nk’ururi mu filime n’inkuru z’urukundo:Ibi bituma abantu batekereza ko urukundo rw’ukuri rugomba kuba rwuzuye amarangamutima adashira, nyamara mu buzima busanzwe bigenda bihinduka.

Kwishingikiriza amarangamutima gusa:Abantu benshi batekereza ko iyo umuntu agukunze, azahora agufitiye ibyiyumvo bikomeye, ariko urukundo nyarwo rugira ibihe byiza n’ibigoye.

Gutekereza ko hari umuntu umwe gusa wagenewe buri wese: Nubwo hari abantu duhuza cyane, si ngombwa ko habaho umwe rukumbi wagenewe umuntu. Urukundo ruba hagati y’abantu babiri biyemeje kubaka umubano.

Kwitiranya urukundo n’ubushake bwo kumva unezerewe :Hari abatekereza ko urukundo ari ukunezerwa gusa, nyamara harimo no kwitanga, kubabarira, no gukorana ubwitange.

Gutekereza ko urukundo rugomba kumera kimwe igihe cyose: Urukundo rurakura, rugahinduka, rukajyana n’ubuzima abantu barimo. Kwibwira ko ruzahora nk’uko rwatangiye bishobora gutera ibibazo.

Kuvuga ko iyo ukunze umuntu nyakuri uhita ubimenya ako kanya: Abantu bamwe batekereza ko urukundo nyarwo ruhita rugaragara mu kanya gato, nyamara akenshi rukura buhoro buhoro.

Gutekereza ko gukundana ari uguhora mwemeranya kuri byose: Nubwo kumvikana ari byiza, abantu baziranye neza kandi bakundana bagira ibihe byo kutumvikana, ariko bakabyitwaramo neza.

Kwibeshya ko urukundo rutagomba gutera imbaraga: Hari abibwira ko iyo ukunze umuntu, byose biza byoroshye, nyamara urukundo rusaba imbaraga, kwitanga, no gukora iyo bwabaga ngo rugume rukomeye.

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