Ni kenshi uzajya kumva umugabo arakubwiye ngo “sha umugore wange namukunze kubera ko mbona azi ubwenge. n’umugore bikaba uko burya rero ni ndwara aba afite. Dore ibiranga iyo ndwara, Sapiophilia cyangwa sapiosexual, ni ugukururwa n’umugore cyangwa umugabo uzi ubwenge kuruta uko asa ku isura.
1. Aba ari umuhanga wo kuganira: mbese nta ngingo imwisoba, kandi aguha umwanya nawe ukamubwira uko utekereza ibintu.
2. Ntiyihanganira guseba: iyo muganira ugasa nkaho umurusha ibintu aragerageza kuburyo ejo agaruka afite ingingo shya akurusha.
2. Aganira ingingo zisaba Gutekereza: ntago uzasanga ari umuntu uganira ibintu bisanzwe. nta biciro by’isoko cyangwa amakuru yabantu aba avuga ahubwo ashishikazwa n’ibitekerezo bishya ku ngingo runaka.
4. Agira inshuti zisobanutse: niba umukunzi wawe afite inshuti zisobanutse mu mutwe ntakabuza rwose icyo kibazo aragifite kubera ko abamuzengurutse aba ari abantu bavuga ibishya. (source e-entertainment .)