Urukundo rw’ibyamamare (Abasitari) akenshi rurangira vuba kandi mu buryo butunguranye. Benshi bibaza impamvu ibyamamare bidakunze kurambana mu rukundo, nyamara hari impamvu nyinshi zituma ibyo bibaho.
1. Umuvuduko w’ubuzima bw’ibyamamare
Abasitari baba bafite gahunda nyinshi z’akazi, ingendo zitandukanye, ndetse rimwe na rimwe ntibabona umwanya uhagije wo gushyira imbere urukundo rwabo.
2. Gukundana byihuse batitaye ku mizi y’urukundo
Benshi barakundana mu buryo bwihuse, bakururwa n’ibyishimo n’icyubahiro cy’abo bakundanye na bo, ariko nyuma y’igihe gito bagasanga batari bubashe kurushinga rugakomera.
3. Gutwarwa n’itangazamakuru n’abafana
Ibikorwa byabo bikunze kuba imbere y’itangazamakuru n’abafana, bikaba byagira ingaruka mbi ku mibanire yabo. Hari ubwo amakuru atari yo atangazwa ku rukundo rwabo, bikabaviramo gushwana.
4. Kutizerana no gucana inyuma
Muri showbiz, habamo ibishuko byinshi. Kubera ko bahura n’abantu benshi bafite uburanga n’amafaranga, hari igihe bibagora kuguma ku mukunzi umwe. Ibi bituma gucana inyuma biba ikibazo gikomeye.
5. Ihangana mu kazi no kugereranywa n’itangazamakuru
Iyo bombi ari ibyamamare, hari igihe itangazamakuru ribagereranya, umwe akaba yakumva asezerewe cyangwa atagihabwa agaciro nk’uko bikwiye.
6. Umwiryane uterwa n’amafaranga n’icyubahiro
Ubwamamare buzana amafaranga menshi, ariko rimwe na rimwe ayo mafaranga ashobora kuba inkomoko y’amakimbirane iyo umwe atangiye kugenda akomera kurusha undi.
7. Guhindura amarangamutima vuba
Kubera stress nyinshi no kuba bahora bagaragazwa mu itangazamakuru, hari igihe bakundana bashingiye ku byiyumvo by’igihe gito, ariko bikarangira bidakomeje.
8. Kunanirwa guhuza gahunda zabo
Abasitari baba bafite ingendo nyinshi, amahugurwa, ibitaramo n’indi mirimo ibasaba kuba kure y’abakunzi babo igihe kirekire. Ibi bituma urukundo rwabo rutakaza umushyikirano, rukazima.
9. Kutamenya icyo urukundo nyakuri ari cyo
Hari abo urukundo rwabo rusaba icyubahiro no gukomeza kwamamara, aho kuba urukundo nyakuri. Iyo umwe abonye ko nta nyungu arimo gukura muri uwo mubano, arahita avamo.
10. Gukundana bagamije inyungu z’igihe gito
Hari igihe ibyamamare bikundana kugira ngo bikomeze kwamamara cyangwa bigire amahirwe mu mishinga runaka. Iyo iyo mishinga irangiye, n’urukundo rurangirana na yo.
Mu buryo bworoshye, urukundo rw’ibyamamare rutinda gushinga imizi kuko akenshi rushingira ku mpamvu zitajyanye n’urukundo nyakuri. Iyo batabashije kubaka urukundo rufite imbaraga, bituma basoza umubano wabo vuba.