Gukundana ni ikintu kiza ariko bikaba ikintu kibi iyo ubona umukunzi wawe atangiye gukunda undi, bishobora guterwa nimyitwarire yawe.
Dore ibintu bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe yikundira undi mukobwa:
1. Kumukinisha: Ushobora kuba ufite umukunzi ariko ukaba ukunda kumukinisha cyane, bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe atangira gutereta undi mukobwa
2.Kumugendaho: Harubwo ukundana n’umukobwa ariko agakunda kukugendaho acunga ibintu byose ukora mbese ataguha amahoro, ibyo bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe ajya gutangira gutereta undi mukobwa.
3.Kwinjira muri telephone ye: Abakobwa benshi barabikora kujya kureba ibyo Umusore bakundana akora muri telephone.Ibyo mu gihe umusore mukundana abibonye ashobora guhita akwanga akajya gutereta undi mukobwa.
4.Kumugereranya n’abandi: Iyo ugereranya umukunzi wawe nundi musore cyangwa abasore mwakundanye, ibi nabyo bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe ajya gutangira gutereta undi mukobwa.
5. Kwifatira imyanzuro: Mu gihe umukobwa afite umukunzi ariko akaba atamwemerera ku gira uruhare mu myanzuro runaka, nabyo bishobora gutuma umukunzi wawe cyangwa uwo musore ajya gutangira gutereta undi mukobwa.